Hi @jatin-singh,
ability for the person who left a comment to delete their own comments
We will suggest you check out the wpDiscuz Frontend Moderation add-on, please check it.
Secondly, is there a way to assign a form to a post with a certain tag rather than manually picking the post id. We will have a "featured" tag for some posts and need those to have a different comment form that is not private.
I'm sorry but there is no way to do this.
Thirdly, the previous point ties in with the previous one. I see how to enable private comments for all forms, is there a way to only enable for a certain form?
Please navigate to the Dashboard > wpDiscuz > Settings > Addons Settings > Private Comments admin page, find and check "Enable private threads for comment forms" option.
After some testing. I believe it works. Thanks again. I purchased that front end moderation and it looks like its working.